Let’s establish a healthy relationship between you and life, to do so we’ll have to go through the good parts and the bad ones. After this process, I think we will definitely conclude that the good parts outweigh the bad ones by a ton, but what’s important here is to start looking at the good parts first.
In between your quest to find goodness in life you will discover many things, here are some precautions to take care of:
- Make sure you don’t develop greed for these things because we are not here for materialistic pleasures, we are here just to see what good life has to offer.
- We are just window shopping, looking at the product(the good parts of life), going through all the features. Many salesmen will try to sell you their product but be very careful because goodness in life is highly subjective, we will need to get the product custom-built, we are just taking ideas without getting influenced.
- Be realistic, you would want to have all the good things in life and soon end up in a utopia, which is the first thing on the list of bad parts of life(We will talk about it some other time). When you shoot an arrow perpendicular to the surface it will surely reach the highest altitude but it will also return back and you would not like that.
- All these things are better said than done, finding goodness in life is not an easy task, don’t be hard on yourself if you don’t see anything good in life immediately. It is right there, trust me and you will find it one day or other.
Why find “The Good Parts of life”?
Why not? You and life have been together for a fair share of your lifetime and are pretty much stuck with each other for the rest of your life. Not only you deserve to get the best parts of life but also your life deserves to have the best parts of you. Finding good parts of life will eventually benefit you to live happily.
This idea never promotes ignorance of the real world but it focuses on “acknowledging that good in life exists and you should look forward to those things in your tough times”. You might also know this as hope.
Thanks for reading till here in the next article I will try to answer: What can and what can not be considered a “Good Part”?